FAT PEOPLE = PREFER TO BE POSITIVE AND CONFIDENT

You know what - I have just woken up - 4.30PM - Because i needed to have a sleep after going out this morning with Mother ! - Worn me right out - OK - I did not get to sleep until 11;30pm last night - and then Rodney ( Cat ) woke me up because he was worried that everyone had left him - and then i discovered that a certain 10 year old was next to me in bed - ( My ten year old - don't worry - a Mysterious child had not walked into the house - THAT would have freaked me right out  ! - Had the Guard Dog been sleeping ?? !! ) Now I wake and

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH THE PAIN

- I can hardly move - and you know what - i did first - i reached out - Ohhhh ( Pain in whole of left arm due to doing the mowing of the grass - and only using one arm - ohh i don't know why either ! ) but - I looked at my phone !! -
7 Messages - So - I responded the same in each one
This is what I wrote

" JUST WOKE UP - Been out with mum this am - and was exhausted - Now I'm too achy and in pain to even get up - not because of my Head - ( I have a few Brain Tumor issues - Thats for YOUR benefit - not my friends = They already know !! ) but - because

I'M SO BLOODY FAT !!

It's killing me - my arms - my back - my legs - and even my hump is hurting,
But - Do you know what -

THANK CHRIST I'M SO SEXY = 

THAT'S WHAT PULLS ME THROUGH ! " ..................... That was the end of the text !!!!


AND I BLOODY MEAN IT !!



Now that is NOT the type of text - in fact - i don't think i have ever sent a text saying anything like that before - telling people i am in pain - but - oh share and share alike !!

Just because my illness has made me put on HUGE AMOUNTS OF WEIGHT -
Does NOT mean i can't be happy with who i am !!!!!!

NO-BODY HAS THE RIGHT TO DISAGREE EITHER !!

Because - Even though I can't lose weight - ( and omg i have tried ) -



IM TOO SEXY FOR MY SKIN - AND THAT'S THAT !

NOT ONE PERSON HAS DISAGREED WITH ME - WELL :
THEY CAN'T DISAGREE WITH THE TRUTH NOW CAN THEY !!!!

If I believe it - then omg - they do too !!

( OK - I haven't shown them the photo of me with Bed Hair and Alice Cooper Eyes because well - that just ruins their illusion ! - I don't want to take that from them, I know - I am so kind and thoughtful  )

It really is all about Positivity and Confidence and Motivation !!



I have these three Trait's, just mentioned, in abundance atm -
and i do actually believe in myself and in my Stance on Body Negativity !

STOP WITH ALL THE FAT SHAMING



IT DOES NOT MATTER WHY OR HOW SOMEONE IS FAT
BUT

THERE IS BEAUTY IN EVERYONE 

( OK OK - Nearly everyone - because i won't lie - I NEVER do -
SOME people were not blessed in that department - BUT - )



( Please also remember - in MEXICO - This lady may be a goddess )

THEY MAKE UP FOR IT IN HUMOR OR INTELLIGENCE OR CREATIVITY



OMG - YOUR SO LUCKY TO KNOW ME -

I POSSESS NOT ONE BUT ALL OF THESE ...
But - i'm NOT perfect - OHHHH SHUSH - I'M NOT - My Grammar and Spelling are dreadful !!
but - do you know what

WHO BLOODY CARES !! = IS THAT IMPORTANT ? NOPE !

( Most - sorry i feel i have to add that - just to make my blog TRUTHFUL ! )

Fatties ARE and bloody well CAN, BE BEAUTIFUL ............ MEN AND WOMEN

Just be POSITIVE AND WORK ON YOUR STRENGTHS !

It's society that puts a stop to it - AND THAT IS DISGRACEFUL BEHAVIOR

Don't we have enough problems with people UNJUSTIFIABLY HATING



Is it not THAT, which is causing all the Wars and Fights and Violence ??

It's Lack of Education also - I really believe that !

NOT a social 'Lack of Education' - Because I have been Fat Shamed by the very most Intelligent and Socially 'apt' or should that be 'ept' (?) person, to being degraded by the girl, pushing a pram at 12 years old around the local council estate -
All very Stereotypical - and in fact JUDGEMENTAL of me - but - it's true -
it's just I have the Bloody front to say it - where as others, don't !
..... but - Generally - People have no idea !! -

I have Doctors - Who have my medical EVIDENCE as to why i am FAT, well OBESE ....
RIGHT IN FRONT OF THEM - and they still ask :

" Have you thought of a Gastric Band ? "
To which I reply ....

" Would that Not be DANGEROUS - Because - I actually - i DON'T overeat " .........  I may add in
" Bloody Moron "   here and possibly get to walk out - but - Mum usually stops me - to hear out a response !!

So - Your going to put a Band in my stomach - to make me think that I am not Hungry -
where in fact - I'm not actually hungry A LOT of the time -
I hardly eat ANYTHING as it is - YOU WANT ME TO EAT LESS ??
The reason why I am so UNBELIEVABLY FAT is right in front of you
- Yet - YOU chose to offer me weight loss surgery -

I AM FAT / OBESE BECAUSE MY BODY IS IN FAMINE MODE -
AND EVERYTHING I EAT IS PUT ON AS FAT AND STORED -

THANK GOD I HAVE MY LOOKS TO FALL BACK ON
AND IF FALL BACK I DID - I WOULD BOUNCE BACK BEAUTIFULLY !

- I have no control over this -

BUT I HAVE CONTROL OVER MY THOUGHTS !



I even take Meds DAILY and for the rest of my life - to try to battle the obesity
DOCTORS SIGN THE PRESCRIPTIONS EVERY WEEK !
and in fact now, don't even have milk in Coffee - To see if that helps !!
I can't exercise - and yes that is CAN'T - NOT - WON'T
because - when i do -
MY BRAIN SHUTS DOWN !! - ( Due to Brain Tumor )
YET THEY PERSIST IN SAYING I OVEREAT -

THANK CHRIST I KNOW I AM NOT MAD -
AND THANK CHRIST PEOPLE I KNOW - REALISE THAT I DON'T OVEREAT -
AND I KNOW I DON'T BRING THE SITUATION ON MYSELF

IT'S THERE IN FRONT OF YOU .......... But it's not nice to see whats in front of you at times is it

( have been told by the local Gym that i am no longer able to go there either to swim or do weights because they are not insured for my condition - OK - I get that - so - I DO WHAT I CAN - WHEN I CAN - and even have to photos to prove it - I don't sit at home and do nothing !! = I am always VERY BUSY !! )

So the thing to help - POSITIVITY / MOTIVATION AND BELIEVING IN MYSELF !

OK - YES - I AM FAT ................. I AM OBESE ........................ -
YES - EVERYTHING HURTS AND I AM IN CONSTANT PAIN -

BUT - BRING IT TOO THE HERE AND NOW ..............................

LEAST I KNOW WHATS CAUSING THE ISSUES !!
IT'S BRILLIANT THAT I CAN BE SO UPBEAT AND SYSTEMATIC IN MY APPROACH

I Don't think - well - in a few ..... YEARS ......... It will be different - Because - Na - I can't see it changing - I can't eat any less - Can't operate - so - i'm not going to be able to do much am I !

SO - POSITIVITY PEOPLE = When you CAN - You MUST !!

and you will probably enjoy it !!

I do - I LOVE being outside and doing the garden -
or playing with the dog - or just simply - going out for a coffee.

Stop dwelling on what you can't do - and don't justify yourself for stuff that you do , do !!!

" Yes - I can have this teacake  " You don't have to add - because i know darn well - that i wont eat anything else till tonight - It will literally last me till then - i won't be hungry !! = So - BLOODY ENJOY IT !! "

" I can't do * such and such * today because I am in pain .... But - at the next opportunity - IT WILL GET DONE " - and it always does - OK - It may take me much much longer than anyone else - but - I GET THERE - AND FEEL GOOD FOR DOING SO !!

Is weight an issue - OF COURSE IT IS -

BUT with inclination and determination -
ANYTHING CAN BE ACHIEVED !

YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
LOOK IN THE MIRROR

Your Hair, Your Eyes, Your Mouth, Your Neck, Your Chest, blar blar blar !!

THERE MUST BE SOMETHING - NOBODY HATES EVERYTHING ABOUT THEMSELVES

THERE IS SOMETHING

NOW - EMPHASISE  IT !!

KEEP LOOKING AT YOURSELF AND THINK THAT YOU ARE RAVISHING !

KEEP SAYING IT - LET IT SINK IN -

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF -

THAT'S THE FIRST STEP !!!

I do apologise for using my CAPITAL LOCK alot of the time here today - but -- I tend to place emphasis on things i am passionate about - and well = The Caps Lock does do this beautifully !

FAKE ONLINE PROFILES - SSBBW / BBW STYLE !!

FIRSTLY - THIS IS FOR EVERYONE - 

 THIS GOES FOR EVERY SIZE / COLOUR / CREED 

ANYONE CAN BE A VICTIM OF FAKE PROFILES

BE IT : DATING OR FACEBOOK / INSTAGRAM / TWITTER 

But - Guys do tend to 'try' it on with us fat chicks because they believe that fatties are 

DESPERATE FOR LOVE

SAD

ALONE

UPSET

DESPERATE FOR HUMAN TOUCH

LOW MAINTENANCE

LOW SELF ESTEEM

LOW CONFIDENCE

SLUTS

DESPERATE FOR AFFECTION

So many of guys have been telling me stories of them being blocked by women 

- for doing nothing - and - from MY POINT OF VIEW - 

OK - I GUESS I AM MORE CONFIDENT / OPEN / FIESTY / FRANK THAN 'ALOT' OF THE TYPICAL FATTIES YOU SEE - BUT - IT GOES FOR ONE AND ALL = 

IM SCEPTICAL YOU HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING WRONG !!!!

1) - Have you started off on the right foot ?

2) - Sent a Nice first message - showing you have read profiles - and maybe inc some info that you            share a passion for ?

3) - Not asked too see photos

4) - Not sent or asked if I want to see YOUR intimate photos !

5) - Asked for phone number or given phone number immediately 

6) - Sent toooo many emails / comments without a response

THIS GOES FOR MEN AND WOMEN !!

OK - NOTHING UNTOWARD - THEN

I think the reason you have been blocked is that said 'women' or men realise that your not daft and not about to give em money to help their poor ol mother out in zimbabwe or where ever 

Or you realise that they have not REALLY just been mugged and need cash for a hotel - lmao - 

SOME PEOPLE ARE SERIOUSLY STUPID thinking those scams work !! 

and i guess 2 out of 5 times they do - so maybe it is worth their while to ask - 

NOT THAT I AM CONDONING IT !! = I don't agree with asking or giving money for ANYTHING - I am a nightmare - i won't pay if someone asks me to " Help the children who are dying " - or rather they ask:

" Do you want to give some money to help a child with Cancer ?"

to which i always reply

" Nope " - I WILL NOT BE MADE TO FEEL GUILTY 

I think that's why people are then blocked - it has nothing to do with YOU - 

but the fact you have some intelligence !!! 

GUYS AND GALS 

 The REAL women / men have more than one photo 

and they put 'something' on their profiles - They take the time  and the effort to make themselves 'interesting'

they will also respond - depending on if you are their type - even if it is to say 

THANKS BUT NO THANKS !

If  people don't have a profile or have not put any effort in - it looks as though they are fake  

A lot of the time - you wont get a reply !!!! 

BECAUSE THEY ARE FAKES

SCAMMERS

MARRIED

JUST AFTER SEX

BUT - OK OK - YOU WANT PROPER FACTS - SO HERE YOU GO ! : 

1. 97 percent of fake profiles are created using female names

2. 58 percent claim to be bisexuals

3. The fake profiles averaged 726 friends

4. Real Profiles averaged with just 130 friends, which is 6 times less friends than the fake accounts

5. Fake accounts use photo tags over 100 times more than real users

6. 15 percent of the actual profiles had no status updates, 

7. 43 percent for the fakes accounts have no status update

8. 40% of the real profiles claim that they attended college compared to 68% of the Fake profiles.

9. Real profiles on average have 3 times more interests in entertainment section than Fake profiles 

- They are trying to weedle the daft and trusting from the sceptical !!!

Just saying HI - does NOT cut it either !!! - 

If people are interesting they will read a profile and take time to find out - 

If you just say Hi - well - from My Point of view - B.O.R.I.N.G !!!!!!! - 

I want more than that !! Usually means you cant hold a conversation or you want me to do all the work  !! Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa - I can do better !!! 

So THINK - TAKE YOUR TIME - AND GOOD LUCK 

BUT ONE THING FOR CERTAIN

NEVER EVER GIVE MONEY !!!!!!

Difference in replies from BBW Dating website to BDSM Dating Website !

BBW / SSBBW - 

GETTING TREATED LIKE PIECES OF MEAT ! 

Some explicit messages are on there way - Beware **

HERE ARE SOME RESPONSES I HAVE HAD TO A BULK MESSAGE THAT WAS SENT OUT ON MY BEHALF, 

Written by me - 

But sent to a group of guys - 

On a BBW Dating WEBSITE  

&

On a BDSM Website 

This is the Message I constructed !! = 

Looking for a Strong Guy who I can be myself with :

Im a strong confident positive woman who loves nothing better than to find spark and a connection - with this - Great Times could be had - Maybe !!
Ideal first date - if ok with you - YOU MUST DRIVE TO HERNE BAY .... I don't drive anymore due to illness

Coffee and lots of laughter and conversation - and lets hope there is spark ! THAT'S IT !!

Not into ONS / 'FUN' !! 

Looking for that Connection with Mr Right - NOT Mr Right Now !! 

Today at 7:51am — Delete

MEN THINK IT'S OK TO SEND THE BELOW 

AS A FIRST MESSAGE !! 

SHOULD WE, AS WOMEN, PUT UP WITH THIS ?? 

These ALL came from the BBW website ! - 

I REPEAT - THE BBW POPULAR / BONEFIDE WEBSITE 

• Boo

  Hello , im a mechanic from Deal ,imagine this .... I love big women, always have, since i was a kid, my mum was big,  maybe you could break down somewhere secluded, i turn up, your bonnet is open and your bending over the engine bay, you have a dress on, and your tummy is resting on the top, i pull up in front of you, nothing is said, as the wind blows and lifts up your dress,i can see you have nothing on at all under your dress, i sneak a peak at your sweet flabby pussy. I pull up your dress and i caress your juicy plump  lips, working you into a frenzy, I ease your belly roll up and i slip my cock deep inside you ....... When shall we meet ?

  Yesterday at 4:03pm — Delete

  Reply
• 
  
• 
  
  

  Mmmm - that is rather a different message - but - pmsl - maybe a hello would be nice first !! - and FIX MY BLOODY CAR !! ;) pmsl xx

  Today at 2:00pm — Delete

Some guys are really that disrespectful, 

in there FIRST MESSAGE !!  

and some - 

really have NO IDEA that they are being plain rude and almost abusive !

• not into BBW stuff, or coffee, just shagging! Just want to shag, meet me an i'll shag you silly

  Today at 7:57am — Delete

  Reply
• 
  
  

   WHY are you on a site called BBWMEETS  ????

mmmm - Serious - Guys - OK - SOME guys are thinking this is normal and what women want to hear !!

Then 

James

Hi

I like dirty big girls, you look dirty and you are big

Yesterday at 5:56pm — Delete

OMG - and OBVIOUSLY THE PHOTO IS A FAKE - and no - he did not even get a response  !!

A few of the other replies i have had !! 

                   Wanna Fuck ?

                   Want my Cock do you, I want your Fat ass on my lap...

                   I LOVE Dirty Fatties ,, 

                   Come sit on my face smother me

                   Will you be my Fat Mummy ? I love your tits - I love tits  ...

                   I know I am older (75) But I will go out with you, If you do something for me.

                   I'll meet you for coffee - then I'll rape you and enjoy every minute

 

What do they have in common - Apart from the first one - where i was actually very impressed that he came up with a senario for a meeting ! - 

ALL THE OTHERS REPLY IN LESS THAN 20 WORDS !! 

BLESS THEM - DESPERATE.... and they think the fat bird - esp a Fat Bird with kids will sleep with them !!

THEN - You get the BDSM website - and OK -  Since Saturday when i Joined - I have over 1000 Messages and Winks But - 

so FAR - 

NOT ONE indecent message !! 

HANG ON - REMEMBER WHAT YOU ARE TOLD ABOUT BDSM - OMG - KINKY & SEXUALLY EXPLICIT .....

REMEMBER THAT STANDARDISED STEREOTYPE OF THE TYPICAL BDSM PERSON !! 

This is how THEY responded ( I have obscured there names and faces ..  ! : 

Si*******an 5/12/2016 5:14:42 PM Report this message for inappropriate content hi hun, i love a sexy red head. i love ur tattooos do u have nymore? How are you today, are you having a nice day, it is cold isnt it, im just going to make a cup of tea - or would you prefer a coffeee? Your a milk one sugar girl arnt you - you are sweet enough! boooooooooooooooootiful bbe ... DivaDavex

abigail_BBW 5/12/2016 9:09:19 PM hahahah omg - i love a diva !! hellooooo - and how the devil are you ?? - thank u for your lovely message - and yes i have quite a few tattoos - a bit of a passion - i love the art !!! how abou yourself - do you have any ? xx

Si*********an 6/1/2016 4:34:18 PM Report this message for inappropriate content good, Diva is me all over! im feeling fantastic now im speaking 2 you, good! i find it very artistic, liek filling a beautiful blank canvas!! I don't have any but id rather sit there and admire yours!! xx

See - THATS a bit more appropriate !!

Then there is  : 

je**********76 6/1/2016 2:43:58 PM Report this message for inappropriate content I am Daniel 6ft 3 laid back genuine honest friendly guy, liked your photos keen to chat seeking friendship leading to a relationship hope we may chat X absolutely amazing photos

abigail_BBW 6/2/2016 2:52:01 PM Awww Hey Dan, 6ft3" - Lovely - i do like a Tall guy - and THANK you for the respectful message - such a lovely change !! - lmao - See if there is Spark first before delving any deeper - Thanks !!

Then there is : 

d************78 5/30/2016 5:48:57 PM Report this message for inappropriate content Hi, I am George, 38 and work as a doctor in East Sussex. You are the prettiest and sexiest girl I have ever seen and would really like to date you... PS I dont have pics here due to work but could send you directly..

abigail_BBW 6/2/2016 2:54:52 PM Awwww Hey George - and Thank you - what a lovely thing to say - come on then - send a piccy !! and OMG a Doctor in what ?? Thats such a busy and time consuming job - you sure you have time to date !! - esp me - im VERY Time consuming !! ;) x

and so many to choose from - but so many lovely guys 

F************ es 6/2/2016 2:56:35 PM Report this message for inappropriate content You're so popular on youtube, I have looked, no wonder to be honest... that's what people meant by 'real woman'.... Down to earth, sexy in a take it or leave it way, I'm not a driver, but definitely an admirer of you!  x

abigail_BBW 6/2/2016 3:07:04 PM awwwww - what a lovely message - thank you - have you looked at youtube ?? and where are you ?

and lastly : 

FC*******BB 6/2/2016 2:56:35 PM Report this message for inappropriate content I'm currently being serenaded by half the birds in Wales (the feathered variety!). Very nice but Id rather be asleep in a bed - rather than this tent with a snoring child ! ( It is my child though so at least that is ok ! ) You seem lovely, friendly, confident, and a good conversationalist, I would think we shall get on like a house on fire. Anyway, to the point - would you like to meet up sometime? Exchange numbers?

abigail_BBW 6/2/2016 3:07:04 PM awwwww - what a lovely message - thank you - Are you SURE it's YOUR child - OMG - I hope you don't have a knock on the tent and you have the wrong one ! - BUT - If they are asleep - means they are at ease - so- You can't be bad !! ;) lol - Yes - when you return to bricks and mortar we can exchange numbers - unless you have KIK ?

I am just astounded at the HUGE diversity between the Supposed ' Normal ' People

( Although - NO-BODY is 'Normal' these days ! ) 

on a Popular - Run-of-the-mill website - 

run for Big Beautiful Women, where profiles are Verified ! 

and the BDSM Community Website - 

who MOST people think are the Freaks and the Obscure !! 

At the Moment - I'd take the BDSM People over the regular 'endorsed' guys anyday !! 

What you see is what you get with them !! 

Ok - I have been sent some legit ones from BOTH websites - and also DODGY ones from BOTH websites - But = The point is - OVER half on the 'Normal' Website were explicit and 'crude'

where as 

on the Stereotypical 'crude and rude' website - the guys have been nothing but complimentary and adorable !!

thats it - end of ......