Difference in replies from BBW Dating website to BDSM Dating Website !

BBW / SSBBW - 

GETTING TREATED LIKE PIECES OF MEAT ! 

Some explicit messages are on there way - Beware **

HERE ARE SOME RESPONSES I HAVE HAD TO A BULK MESSAGE THAT WAS SENT OUT ON MY BEHALF, 

Written by me - 

But sent to a group of guys - 

On a BBW Dating WEBSITE  

&

On a BDSM Website 

This is the Message I constructed !! = 

Looking for a Strong Guy who I can be myself with :

Im a strong confident positive woman who loves nothing better than to find spark and a connection - with this - Great Times could be had - Maybe !!
Ideal first date - if ok with you - YOU MUST DRIVE TO HERNE BAY .... I don't drive anymore due to illness

Coffee and lots of laughter and conversation - and lets hope there is spark ! THAT'S IT !!

Not into ONS / 'FUN' !! 

Looking for that Connection with Mr Right - NOT Mr Right Now !! 

Today at 7:51am — Delete

MEN THINK IT'S OK TO SEND THE BELOW 

AS A FIRST MESSAGE !! 

SHOULD WE, AS WOMEN, PUT UP WITH THIS ?? 

These ALL came from the BBW website ! - 

I REPEAT - THE BBW POPULAR / BONEFIDE WEBSITE 

• Boo

  Hello , im a mechanic from Deal ,imagine this .... I love big women, always have, since i was a kid, my mum was big,  maybe you could break down somewhere secluded, i turn up, your bonnet is open and your bending over the engine bay, you have a dress on, and your tummy is resting on the top, i pull up in front of you, nothing is said, as the wind blows and lifts up your dress,i can see you have nothing on at all under your dress, i sneak a peak at your sweet flabby pussy. I pull up your dress and i caress your juicy plump  lips, working you into a frenzy, I ease your belly roll up and i slip my cock deep inside you ....... When shall we meet ?

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  Mmmm - that is rather a different message - but - pmsl - maybe a hello would be nice first !! - and FIX MY BLOODY CAR !! ;) pmsl xx

  Today at 2:00pm — Delete

Some guys are really that disrespectful, 

in there FIRST MESSAGE !!  

and some - 

really have NO IDEA that they are being plain rude and almost abusive !

• not into BBW stuff, or coffee, just shagging! Just want to shag, meet me an i'll shag you silly

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   WHY are you on a site called BBWMEETS  ????

mmmm - Serious - Guys - OK - SOME guys are thinking this is normal and what women want to hear !!

Then 

James

Hi

I like dirty big girls, you look dirty and you are big

Yesterday at 5:56pm — Delete

OMG - and OBVIOUSLY THE PHOTO IS A FAKE - and no - he did not even get a response  !!

A few of the other replies i have had !! 

                   Wanna Fuck ?

                   Want my Cock do you, I want your Fat ass on my lap...

                   I LOVE Dirty Fatties ,, 

                   Come sit on my face smother me

                   Will you be my Fat Mummy ? I love your tits - I love tits  ...

                   I know I am older (75) But I will go out with you, If you do something for me.

                   I'll meet you for coffee - then I'll rape you and enjoy every minute

 

What do they have in common - Apart from the first one - where i was actually very impressed that he came up with a senario for a meeting ! - 

ALL THE OTHERS REPLY IN LESS THAN 20 WORDS !! 

BLESS THEM - DESPERATE.... and they think the fat bird - esp a Fat Bird with kids will sleep with them !!

THEN - You get the BDSM website - and OK -  Since Saturday when i Joined - I have over 1000 Messages and Winks But - 

so FAR - 

NOT ONE indecent message !! 

HANG ON - REMEMBER WHAT YOU ARE TOLD ABOUT BDSM - OMG - KINKY & SEXUALLY EXPLICIT .....

REMEMBER THAT STANDARDISED STEREOTYPE OF THE TYPICAL BDSM PERSON !! 

This is how THEY responded ( I have obscured there names and faces ..  ! : 

Si*******an 5/12/2016 5:14:42 PM Report this message for inappropriate content hi hun, i love a sexy red head. i love ur tattooos do u have nymore? How are you today, are you having a nice day, it is cold isnt it, im just going to make a cup of tea - or would you prefer a coffeee? Your a milk one sugar girl arnt you - you are sweet enough! boooooooooooooooootiful bbe ... DivaDavex

abigail_BBW 5/12/2016 9:09:19 PM hahahah omg - i love a diva !! hellooooo - and how the devil are you ?? - thank u for your lovely message - and yes i have quite a few tattoos - a bit of a passion - i love the art !!! how abou yourself - do you have any ? xx

Si*********an 6/1/2016 4:34:18 PM Report this message for inappropriate content good, Diva is me all over! im feeling fantastic now im speaking 2 you, good! i find it very artistic, liek filling a beautiful blank canvas!! I don't have any but id rather sit there and admire yours!! xx

See - THATS a bit more appropriate !!

Then there is  : 

je**********76 6/1/2016 2:43:58 PM Report this message for inappropriate content I am Daniel 6ft 3 laid back genuine honest friendly guy, liked your photos keen to chat seeking friendship leading to a relationship hope we may chat X absolutely amazing photos

abigail_BBW 6/2/2016 2:52:01 PM Awww Hey Dan, 6ft3" - Lovely - i do like a Tall guy - and THANK you for the respectful message - such a lovely change !! - lmao - See if there is Spark first before delving any deeper - Thanks !!

Then there is : 

d************78 5/30/2016 5:48:57 PM Report this message for inappropriate content Hi, I am George, 38 and work as a doctor in East Sussex. You are the prettiest and sexiest girl I have ever seen and would really like to date you... PS I dont have pics here due to work but could send you directly..

abigail_BBW 6/2/2016 2:54:52 PM Awwww Hey George - and Thank you - what a lovely thing to say - come on then - send a piccy !! and OMG a Doctor in what ?? Thats such a busy and time consuming job - you sure you have time to date !! - esp me - im VERY Time consuming !! ;) x

and so many to choose from - but so many lovely guys 

F************ es 6/2/2016 2:56:35 PM Report this message for inappropriate content You're so popular on youtube, I have looked, no wonder to be honest... that's what people meant by 'real woman'.... Down to earth, sexy in a take it or leave it way, I'm not a driver, but definitely an admirer of you!  x

abigail_BBW 6/2/2016 3:07:04 PM awwwww - what a lovely message - thank you - have you looked at youtube ?? and where are you ?

and lastly : 

FC*******BB 6/2/2016 2:56:35 PM Report this message for inappropriate content I'm currently being serenaded by half the birds in Wales (the feathered variety!). Very nice but Id rather be asleep in a bed - rather than this tent with a snoring child ! ( It is my child though so at least that is ok ! ) You seem lovely, friendly, confident, and a good conversationalist, I would think we shall get on like a house on fire. Anyway, to the point - would you like to meet up sometime? Exchange numbers?

abigail_BBW 6/2/2016 3:07:04 PM awwwww - what a lovely message - thank you - Are you SURE it's YOUR child - OMG - I hope you don't have a knock on the tent and you have the wrong one ! - BUT - If they are asleep - means they are at ease - so- You can't be bad !! ;) lol - Yes - when you return to bricks and mortar we can exchange numbers - unless you have KIK ?

I am just astounded at the HUGE diversity between the Supposed ' Normal ' People

( Although - NO-BODY is 'Normal' these days ! ) 

on a Popular - Run-of-the-mill website - 

run for Big Beautiful Women, where profiles are Verified ! 

and the BDSM Community Website - 

who MOST people think are the Freaks and the Obscure !! 

At the Moment - I'd take the BDSM People over the regular 'endorsed' guys anyday !! 

What you see is what you get with them !! 

Ok - I have been sent some legit ones from BOTH websites - and also DODGY ones from BOTH websites - But = The point is - OVER half on the 'Normal' Website were explicit and 'crude'

where as 

on the Stereotypical 'crude and rude' website - the guys have been nothing but complimentary and adorable !!

thats it - end of ......