FAT PEOPLE AND CLOTHES ( Plus Size )

Ohhhhhhhhhh Now that title has opened up a WHOLE HOST of angry comments i bet
BUT WAIT
I am FAT and i wear CLOTHES - so - I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO NAME IT THAT
I don't find it offensive - I am Upfront and Quite at ease with myself, If your Fat - and Hate the word Fat - Then you have bought into this FAT SHAMING FAD - Which should in fact be laughed at ..

I am HUGE, have lots of rolls, and cellulite - double chins - bingo wings -

BUT -

BLOODY HELL - I'M SEXY !!

AND I DARE ANYONE TO TELL ME OTHERWISE !!!

WHO HAS THE RIGHT,  TO TELL ME OTHERWISE ???

And if i do get told otherwise - WHY LISTEN and get upset - As a guy told me just this morning -
" Don't lower yourself to their standards " NO - If I want to wear something - and I FEEL GOOD AND THINK I LOOK NICE - THEN THAT IS WHAT COUNTS ....

If someone you LOVE says NO THAT IS NOT A GOOD LOOK
- But - YOU are still happy -
then - Smile - say - " Thank you " for their opinion -
But -

YOU stand by what YOU think - 

If YOU like it - YOU wear it ... 

It is up to THEM to embrace your individuality - and NOT your headache to make them feel less intimidated by your look - They are less understanding - or simply embarrassed -
IF THEY DON'T LIKE IT - and the reason is valid - FINE - they are allowed THEIR opinion -

BUT it does NOT mean you have to agree .


I have been told MANY MANY times to stop showing so much cleavage

.... I CAN'T HELP THAT MY BREASTS ARE LARGE. ....


and in fact -

They are a wonderful asset to make me feel womanly and beautiful
( Although - If i did not have them - I would simply accentuate the Positive parts about ME - !! -
A woman does NOT need Breasts to be WOMANLY ! )

and I DON'T actually actively encourage them to be the main part of my being !!

However :

Life is what we make it.
We have freedom of choice, of what actions we take and how we choose to be.

We can either be positive or negative.
We can choose either Acceptance or Fail .... 

There is an old song with the lyrics "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative." The drawn-out pronunciation of the word accentuate (ack-SEN-chew-ate) draws attention to the word, which is exactly what i aim to do - I aim to accentuate my Positives - to get rid and live with the negatives !! .....


You've got to accentuate the positive
Eliminate the negative
Latch on to the affirmative
Don't mess with Mister In-Between

You've got to spread joy up to the maximum
Bring gloom down to the minimum
Have faith or pandemonium
Liable to walk upon the scene

HAVE A LISTEN TO ARETHA - AND EMBRACE !!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4IP9h40z0sk&list=RD4IP9h40z0sk#t=0

 SO - WHY CAN'T I?? ...... If i have a guy stare at them - I ALWAYS TELL HIM STRAIGHT -
" Talk to me please - NOT MY BOOBS "
 The cleavage is there for my Benefit - NOBODY ELSES !! But - Why hide Perfection !!!!

In the above photo - as i hope you can see - I am actually accentuating my EYES = The colour - the shape = the Vividness !!

My Boobs are well - just there !!! - I am NOT drawing attention to them -
I hope your eyes are drawn to mine - In that photo - I am actually wearing a Cami Top = BUT - it looks like i am in nothing but a Bra - Lol - Very seductive - But - actually - I'd just got back from ASDA !! = That's so NOT seductive now is it !!

I also get told - 'Oh you should not wear 'that' .. because it is

Too short

Too see through

Too Tight

But - when does a THINNER person get told .....
You look too Thin in that -
I'd wear something that covers you up ??



My FAVOUITE clothing Brands are listed below - The Top Two - being my best loved .... I will always - if possible - by clothes from here - The First is so inexpensive - hard wearing - sexy and colourful , and Joe Browns - OMG - Unique and Different - Both are so comfortable, and easy to wear - and please - RAVVVVISHING !

http://www.angelafashion.com/ - All the long Bright Dresses !! 

http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/page/joebrowns/show.action

www.curvissa.co.uk/Women_Plus_Size‎
 

www.fashionworld.co.uk/Plus_Size

www.simplybe.co.uk/

www.yoursclothing.co.uk/

www.forever21.com/faith21


 OK - I have also LOADS of Tops from a fella on Ebay = and OMG as you can see if you watch my YouTube Videos - Or look at my Google+ account - I DO HAVE ABOUT 12 TOPS = and i also use them a pj's and Dresses - so very versatile

I have almost every colour - Click on the link below - then look at his shop for the Long Cami plus size tops - They are fabulous, and true to size - and wash so well - and pleaseeee - LOOK AT THE PRICE - AN UTTER BARGIN !! The Seller is also VERY VERY Honest and reliable - and so very friendly -

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The Seller is also VERY VERY Honest and reliable - and so very friendly - GO LOOK - ( After you have finished here !! )



What I am going to say to YOU -

as a
PLUS SIZE LADY -
A FAT PERSON -
A CURVACIOUS BEAUTY -
A FATTY
BUXOM
BOOTYLICIOUS

I have every right to wear 

what i want - 

when i want -

I am aware that YOU may not like it -
You may deem my wear as Inappropriate or too sexy / showing too much flesh -
BUT
I beg to Differ = If i want to show my curves  -  THEN I SHALL -

It will never be Pornographic or TO MUCH -
No Intimate parts will ever be exposed, So - WHAT HARM AM I DOING ?

I aim to please Myself  - and that is NOT meant to sound as rude as it does !

I WANT and NEED to Feel better about myself  IN MY OWN WAY - and - by doing - maybe what you don't like - I can make myself smile - Is that not a good thing ???

Everybody has individual feeling on clothes - not one person is the same -

EVERYBODY NEEDS TO SIT BACK - AND RELAX - 

LET INDIVIDUALITY SHINE !!!