#FAT - #BODY #POSITIVITY #ACTIVISTS - #BBW #SSBBW

OK - So i have to say that i started having a peek at the internet on


Women and the Body Positivity Movement -


and it got me wondering !!

WHAT ARE THEY IN IT FOR ???

OK - I'm sceptical !!

Alot of the Ladies are so Positive and Confident and Smiley and Wonderful
- BUT -
So would I be
If I was being given money to make videos and write blogs !
BUT - I'm NOT -
I won't take money for something that is actually a passion of mine !! ....

And it got me thinking -
Are these GORGEOUS MODEL TYPE GIRLS
actually in it to promote Body Positivity and "LOVE THE SKIN YOU'RE IN" Moto's ?

Or .... are they in it for ' something else ' ????

Now - OK - Alot of us are in it for Self Promotion - To show off  'what we have'
as we do REALLY believe that we are over looked by society -
and we are TRYING to show - that :

FAT is FABULOUS,

and - to actually tell the guys - that it's ok to love FAT women !!
There need to be MORE males out there saying -

OK - I LOVE FAT GIRLS !!

Stop hiding behind others - It does not matter what your preference -

EVERYONE HAS A TYPE !

More about that in a minute - There a a Large Number of Curvy -
and i say Curvy - as Really - I would NOT class these Girls as FAT !!
Girls in the 'Movement' ......
Are they just in it too hear the guys salivate after them, I wonder ?
- and to hear other women say -
ohhh i wish i was more like her - ?? Mmmm I do wonder ....

Is it not MUCH better to give the Fat Community a Better goal ?

LOVE YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE 

Not - Look at me - am I not confident and Sexy - BE LIKE ME ....

NO - BE LIKE YOU !! - BE YOU TIFUL !!

You need to be Encouraging Positivity Thoughts and Confidence Building Techniques -
Not showing a video of you in Bra and Knickers - saying -
I am so confident and Positive - Just be like me - and you will be happy !
Because :
WOMEN DO NOT WORK LIKE THAT !!!
Women need to accept themselves for who they are,
If they DON'T like being FAT - change it
Get off your ass and CHANGE IT

If you Can't change it -
For WHATEVER REASON -
THEN GET OVER YOURSELF
AND LIVE YOUR LIFE THE BEST WAY YOU CAN.

If you are going to be a Woman Blogger/Vlogger in the Positivity Movement -
I believe You have to show that you will have videos taken at your lowest ebb,
EVERYONE HAS THEM -
Show when you have no make up -
Show your fat days
Show when you have PMT
Show when your boyfriend has dumped you -

THATS REALITY !! That's what people want to see - THE REAL YOU !!

Not Barbie Doll - Made Up you -

SMILE FOR THE CAMERA - TURN - TURN - SMILE - POSE, HEAD UP - LOOK TO THE LEFT - ARM UP, HOLD IN THAT TUMMY, SMILE, POUT, HEAD DOWN

FFS- THAT'S NOT REAL - THATS STORYTIME !

At this point - i tried to find a photo of a :
Female WELL KNOWN YouTuber
in different good and BAD Pictures - But - Nope - Not one -
I could ONLY find GOOD / ACTUALLY BLOODY GORGEOUS PICTURES !! and ok - this is good - (!) Feel as though i kinda have to say that - But - well -
IT'S NOT THE REAL WORLD IS IT !!

One of the Female Body Positivity Movement Ladies - Loey Lane -
OK - SHE IS GORGEOUS = But - I would NOT class her as FAT =




and ok - to be fair - I have found one - No - No I have not - I can't find one photo of her that's bad !! - She is Gorgeous !!! - Some photos of her show her maybe one or two sizes bigger- but - hey -
the girl pulls it off - she is stunning !

I DON'T WANT HER TO TELL ME I LOOK FABULOUS - SHE LOOK ABOUT A SIZE 18 ?!

OK - Now - Tess Holiday - Now - there IS A PLUS SIZE GIRL !! = Wheww Wheww =
One with Confidence and she does Strutt her Stuff -
and trys to help the Body Positive Movement too ... Decent Quotes .....
and - SHE SHOWS HERSELF WITH AND WITHOUT MAKE UP !!! =
YAYYY! - Now that's what i'm talking

OHHH HANG ON - A wiki search comes up with this on TESS :

Ryann Maegen Hoven (born July 5, 1985), known professionally as Tess Holliday and formerly known as Tess Munster, is an American plus-size model based in Los Angeles. She self-describes as a "body positive activist" and started her #effyourbeautystandards movement on Instagram in 2013. In the same year, she was named by Vogue Italia as one of the top six plus-size models in the world. In 2015, Milk Model Management announced that they had signed Hoven, making her the largest plus-size model to be signed to a mainstream modeling agency.

Mmmmmmmm - She is Making a Packet !! -
and has her own Plus Size Label - and Accounts on all the social media =

Ohh FYI - This was the No Make up picture i found -
OMG - GORGEOUS HEY - I don't look like that with no make up !




I actually got the idea after watching - who i term as a Friend now - as I see his videos almost four times a week and we chat via social media - and he comments and chats on Facebook about my videos - his latest video - Link below - 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zp4o7EzHZ7k

This is Andrew - Complete with new hair - and CUTE HUH !!

MY RESPONSE TO ANDREW !! - Visible on YouTube !

 

Abigail Barry1 hour ago

isnt it weird - Because - I think that too - I CAN'T compete with you !!! - No - No WAY are you dodgy or creepy - Your and Coen and Ryan DON'T come over like that - You come over as a guy who is very very confident and happy with what you like - so - THAT'S WHY I LIKE YOU - I can't compete with Loey Lane etc They are NOT a TYPICAL - girl next door type - they are model types - ANDREW - I WOULD MUCH MUCH RATHER WATCH YOU - THAN WATCH ANOTHER WOMAN - I DON'T WANNA BE TOLD BY A WOMAN that im beautiful - I WANNA BE TOLD BY A GUY !! I'm not that way inclined - so - obviously i wanna be told by you guys - !! I also have the feeling that people like Loey Lane etc are in it for something - THEY ARE NOT IN IT FOR BODY POSITIVITY - I really think they are in it for the fame !! xx

  

The other two guys i mention - and their links are : 

https://www.youtube.com/user/curvyshrine - This is Coen's YouTube Channel

Everyone Know's I love Coen - and not for his looks - 
( Although - as you can see he is delicious ) But for his attitude and 
Outlook on life - He really is Inspirational ) 

https://www.youtube.com/user/lfbbulldog9961 - This is Ryan's YouTube Channel - 

Now Ryan is also Known as Gainz - as he says this at the beginning or end of videos - 
It's GAIIIINZ BABY YEAH - But - this is meaning his muscles- Or so i believe !
He is a Personnel Trainer and also at College atm 

Now - If ANY of these three Guys comes upto a Fat woman - WOW - If it were ME

PHEWWWW WHEWWWWWW WEEEEEEEEEEE

Thank you so much - I'd be DELIGHTED -

They are ALL 3 :

HOT HOT HOT,
ARTICULATE
KNOWLEDGEABLE
FUN
CHARMING
CONFIDENT ( OK - BUT Coen - YOU COME OVER AS CONFIDENT !! - Even if you say you are NOT ! )
COMMITTED TO A GREAT CAUSE ( The Body Positivity Movement )
HONEST
HUMBLE
HAS GOOD MANNERS
AND STRIVE TO HELP AND MAKE LADIES FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEMSELVES

BUT - I KNOW OF THESE THREE GUYS THAT ARE OUT THERE HELPING THE :

FEMALE BODY POSITIVITY MOVEMENT =


Perfect Boyfriend Material - AND THEY LOVE FAT GIRLS  - OMG - Of course I want to watch their videos - and see what there thoughts are on certain subjects - Yes - I wish to interact with them - and Yeah - ok - i wanna be PART OF THE BIGGER PICTURE TOO ! A 'Normal' Fat person - who is not after anything ( OK - except a bit of chat ! ) 'Normal' - Girl Next Door = Go out to put rubbish in the bin in my PJ's - Yup - Thats me !!

= I want to strive to make BIG GIRLS     ROCK THEIR CURVES !!

I understand that many ( inc the guys ) need cash to help promote their channel and really -

THEY ARE NOT GAINING ANYTHING ELSE -

Alot of the women however -
- ok -
MANY OF THE WOMEN - NOT ALL -
are in it - so it seems - for the cash -
AND I THINK THAT IS ABYSMAL -
GETTING PAID TO HELP OTHER WOMEN FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES 

Naaaaaa - Just be a Model love - Get out of the Body Positivity Thing - 
Cause your not being true to yourself

Body Positivity is about being shown our own Stories and How 'we' Grew into the Positive and Confident person that we are today - It's not about ' Look at me ' ........ ' Be like me ' ......... 
It's about giving advice, and communicating with viewers and readers - it's about Being 'Nice' and helping show others whats good - and what can be better - But - above all 

It's about being HONEST !